2007年11月2日 星期五

A Leisurely Life

“How to have a leisurely life” is always most people’s dream. If we try to ask those people why they want to have this kind of life, they may tell you that they don’t satisfy their life now. Therefore, if we want to change our life styles, we need to find out the reasons why people don’t satisfy their life and some solutions of how to have a leisurely life.

The reasons may be separated into 2 different parts. The first one is that the physiological layer. In our society, people rich or not is an important problem. It means that if people don’t have enough money to live, they will get into a lot of troubles, because we use money to buy a lot of things what we need. So, if we want to solve this problem, the first thing we should try to do is that use our money in the “right” way. We need to decide some things we must buy now, and others we can buy later. Then, we can try to record the price of everything we cost. It may help us to control our money easily and understand what we cost everyday. Once we keep our money well, we may near the leisurely life.

The second part is the psychological layer. Most people don’t feel happy and their life bored. They don’t understand why they need to live so hardly, and even feel their lives are meaningless. At this time, we need to find out our life goals and try to do some work what we interested. Thus, even when we work, we still can feel fun from our job. Besides, we may try to open our heart to our family and good friends, once we get into troubles, they will try their best to help us, and you will not feel lonely all the time. In the free time, we should try to throw aside all the vexation, just enjoy our life. Once we can follow these ways, we may more near to reach the leisurely life.

Finally, we need to keep a good mood every moment as possible as we can. That’s because if we do so, we can always look things more optimistic. And then, we will not easily to feel frustrate when we do some difficult jobs. It also helpful for our interpersonal relationship, because other people may think you are kind and easy to get along with you, thus, when you need their help, they may give a hand to you.

Consequently, if we really want to have a leisurely life, we should change ourselves first, and then try to follow these ways to change the life style. Everyone may have a leisurely life in the future.

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